I wouldn't be so quick to assign cause and effect, without gaining more insight or clarity on the situation. Have you tried getting some insight via meditation, divination, or even just stepping back and trying to assess the going-ons outside of a purely magical framework? Both Cameo and Aurelian have offered some great advice on the matter. I can only offer the suggestion to take a step back, take stock, and maybe find your center and proceed from there. A good uncrossing or clearing with whichever methodology you prefer also can't hurt. I hope everything turns arond for you soon enough, with mercury turning direct and the new year incoming.