I'm wondering what the concensus is on working spells to control another's actions. If I am in a long term relationship with a man who tells me he loves me and does many things that prove it, is it wrong to try to nudge the situation along with magick and spells? On one hand I think that if it was me having someone doing witchcraft to take away my free will, I wouldn't like it much. And then I think, well--if the witchcraft was for my good it would be ok. I'm 57 years old and can't wait forever. I welcome all thoughts on this.